Our hair is deeplyconnected to our identityand can intenselyaffect our self-confidence.

Like I said, its a big decision.

That’s the most important thing.

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The first thing to consider is the neckline.

It doesnt stop there, though.

In general, an updo is the most forgiving regardless of the weather.

I had to take it out, clean it, and then reattach it before photos.

This is an extreme case but you never know what can happen!

Say you cant decide between an up and a down look.

Well save the updo as a backup plan if the weather is funky on the day of the wedding.

Gather inspiration photos

Searching for wedding hair on Pinterest isnt the only way to find references.

Hairstylists like McKnight and Weller advise looking outside of the bridal world.

I find these styles look much more modern and timeless.

Knowing what your hair is like and what it can do is also integral.

Does it hold a curl?

Does a greatblow-dry last for days?

Does your texture allow for amessy bun?

Do you have enough length and thickness to create a shapely chignon?

Long hair can be trickier, depending on how long or thick your hair is.

For more inspiration, take a peek at thesewedding hairstyles perfect for long hair.

Be selective with your hairstylist.

And if you have a wedding planner, ask for their recommendations of who they have built relationships with.

To further vet their suggestions, read online reviews.

Did they show up on time?

Did they ever cancel?

Were they eating while doing someones glam?

Besides punctuality, a hairstylist with good, calming energy is also key.

“This makes our appointments so much more productive.

Show up to the trial prepared…

The timing of your trial is important.

Maybe you want to grow your hair out or cut it shorter for the big day.

Perhaps your hairstylist will suggest highlights to add dimension to your updo.

You also want to avoid making any major changes ahead of your trial.

If you haven’t sent your inspiration photos ahead of your trial, bring them on the day.

Coming prepared also means being mindful of what youre wearing to the appointment.

Its a major detail you want to share with your hairstylist right away so they can plan accordingly.

And whatever it is, it should be something that feels really special to you.

Flowers can be just as tricky as a $350 hair comb.

That way, it will look natural and not heavy, she adds.

This includes your veil, too.

Dont be afraid to speak up.

But like, say something, says Kelly.

We dont take any of that personally and just want you to be happy.

The trial can be a journey and a process of elimination.

Oftentimes Im discovering with them.

What to keep in mind if youre doing your own hair.

Most of all, regular practice sessions areessential.

Brides with natural hair will wantstyling geland shine spray to keep curls defined and glossy.

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