And that’s precisely what I feel after readingone recent popular threadon the viral Reddit communityr/AmItheAsshole.

Her husband “consents [to] it” (as if i’shischoice) for the most part.

This man thinks that some of his wife’seye shadows"are inappropriate and ‘wild.'"

A photo of a red lipstick in front of a trash can

Allure/Ingrid Fraham

The woman refuses, but that’s not where this story ends.

The woman later discovers that her husband has thrown away her three palettes.

(Fact check: It is 100 percent his fault.)

Understandably, her thread quickly filled with supportive commentators.

“This is way bigger than just eye shadow,” one user wrote.

“He shouldn’t get to ‘consent’ to whether you wear makeup or not.

It’s your body and your face.”